a simpler, more intentional life: Choose once.
Every day we are bombarded by endless choices, and it can quickly lead to decision fatigue. From the moment we wake up, there are a million tiny decisions waiting for us—what to wear, which products to use, what to buy. These seemingly insignificant choices pile up and leave us feeling stressed. But here’s a simple strategy that can save your sanity: Simplify by making a single choice.
Now, don’t worry—this isn’t about stripping away all variety or turning into a minimalist monk. It’s about reducing the repetitive, daily decisions that drain our energy. Let me show you how I’ve embraced this approach and how it’s brought more peace into my life.
One Scent for Every Sink
At one point, I had a different hand soap at every sink—each with its own scent and design. It was one of those small details that seemed fun but became a hassle. Now? I’ve simplified by choosing a single scent I love—lavender. I buy it in bulk and refill all the soap dispensers around the house.
• Shopping for soap has become effortless.
• My home smells cohesive and fresh.
• And I’m doing my bit for the planet by cutting down on plastic waste.
The One Sock Rule
My husband used to start every morning digging through a drawer full of mismatched socks. The solution? We streamlined it down to just two types of socks:
• White sports socks for casual wear and workouts.
• Black dress socks for formal or professional outfits.
Now, he doesn’t waste time searching for a match, and when one sock inevitably wears out, it doesn’t ruin the pair. It’s such a simple change, but it’s made his mornings so much smoother.
One Style of T-Shirt
A client of mine discovered the perfect t-shirt—ideal weight, texture, and fit. She loved it so much that she bought it in several colors. It’s her go-to, whether she’s running errands or lounging at home, and getting dressed is no longer a guessing game. It’s streamlined, stress-free, and keeps her looking put-together without a second thought.
Uniform Towels for a Unified Look
Mismatched towels were the bane of my existence—different sizes, colors, and fabrics all crammed into one linen closet. So I decided to simplify. Now, we have one style and one color of towel for the whole house. Everything looks clean and consistent, and laundry day is a breeze.
All-White Serveware
I used to have a random assortment of colorful plates and bowls that felt cute in the store but chaotic in my kitchen. So I made the switch to all-white serveware. The result?
• My table looks elegant for every meal, whether it’s a casual dinner or a holiday spread.
• All the food looks great against the white backdrop.
• And everything matches, making it easy to mix and match pieces for any occasion.
Single Color Organizing Products
When it comes to organizing, I keep it simple by choosing white or clear bins for all my closets. This creates a cohesive, minimal look and ensures that when my organization systems need updating, I can use the same containers anywhere in my home without having to buy new ones. It’s a streamlined, visually clean approach that works no matter where I decide to make changes.
Why This Works
By narrowing down your options in a few key areas, you reduce the mental load, save time, and create a sense of calm. When everything matches and works together, it adds harmony to your environment and makes your life feel more intentional. Plus, simplifying often means less waste and more sustainable choices.
Start Small
Don’t feel like you need to overhaul your entire life overnight. Start with something simple—like socks, towels, or serveware—and see how it feels. Once you experience the peace of fewer decisions, you might find yourself ready to streamline even more.
Simplifying isn’t about deprivation—it’s about freeing up your time and mental energy so you can focus on what really matters. When you take the stress out of the small stuff, you’ll have more room to enjoy the things you love.
